Meeting singles when you are alone is not always easy. Never mind, internet dating sites are possible avenues. Although each person is unique, I give you some tips to find the soul mate on the internet, from my own personal experience and that of my clients for over a decade. And I recommend a dating site in Czech Republic if you’re interested.
1 – Being honest is a choice…
If you make the choice not to reveal your actual age to attract younger singles to your chart and you actually look younger, at least you could mention it in conversation early enough so that the other person does not be disappointed and no longer waste time if your actual age does not suit him. Also, people are not fooled … If you mentioned 35 years in your file and you seem to have 47 in your photo, many may notice and you will decrease your response rate.
Same thing for your physical appearance. Are you a few inches shorter than the ideal stereotype and / or some (or more) extra pounds? You may have fewer answers if you tell the truth, but at least the answers you get will be based on who you really are and not on a false image!
2 – Be precise without revealing too much…
Be careful not to write too much detail. This makes your long record to read can be cumbersome for the reader and also removes the mystery. It’s like receiving a gift unpacked! The information you do not reveal is more likely to work the imagination of the single person who reads you and tends to project his own desires. So do not feel obligated to write all kinds of details about yourself.
A single person who says in his profile: “I like historical movies and comedies” says a lot more about his tastes than another who writes: “I love cinema …” So be aware of generalities like: “I like good food and good wine. Most people like that! What kind of food do you like? Which dishes do you cook? Same thing for sports, travel, etc. Be more specific about what you like.
3 – Being active on internet dating networks
Whether you are a woman or a single man, do not wait until you are contacted on the network, go to the others you like. In Quebec, more and more women are taking the first step because more and more men do not dare to do it. We are no longer at the time, especially for those under 50 where the man offers the woman disposes…
4 – Plan a meeting in the flesh
When you make contact, do not stay in virtual conversations for months. Go at your own pace, of course, but get on the fast track. The face-to-face meeting rather than the internet can put you back on the clock based on the idea you had of the single and can bring down many illusions or fears. I suggest going for a coffee or a drink. If you really feel comfortable, it could be an appointment for a meal, but do not organize a long candlelit dinner … If you like it, you can always propose to extend the appointment. And if you do not have common interests, the appointment will not be monopolized by a long meeting.
5 – Do not have too many expectations
Do not invest too emotionally in any exchange. If you get in the way and create expectations, you risk losing morale and depressing yourself. Take internet dating as one of the ways to meet others and not as an end in itself. Varying your hobbies to meet people in the Montreal area or elsewhere in Quebec is an important part of a single person’s life. If you want, I can help you with these aspects as well as for your social approaches or to develop a romantic relationship. You can fill out my form for this purpose.
6 – Do not fall into the Internet addiction
Find the soul mate on the Internet, why not, but not to stop socializing to be online every night and / or weekends. Waiting for answers to your messages and emails can be addictive. Set boundaries and stick to them. So, if you are looking to be in a relationship, do not invest in internet networks. Real life can also bring you beautiful encounters not to neglect. And while waiting to meet to find the soulmate, continue to have real social links…
7 – Think about the approach of your entourage
Instead of being alone in your corner looking for love, did you also think to mention that you would like to meet the soul mate around you? Also chat with friends, colleagues who like you, cousins, etc. Invite them to share your social networks. Maybe some of them can help you meet people because they can have single people among their acquaintances.